Do you ever find yourself feeling responsible for other people’s happiness..?
Even… when it’s not your job to do so?
If you’re like me, then this sense of responsibility might have been ingrained in you since childhood.
Friends, allow me to bare my soul to you today. I have come a long way in my journey of self-expression, and now I want to inspire you to take hold of your own desires and start sharing who you truly are.
Growing up, I was always the people-pleaser—the one who prioritized the feelings and needs of others over my own.
For a long time, it felt like the right thing to do. But over time, I realized just how toxic this pattern could be.
I started to notice something about myself: whenever someone around me was upset or unhappy, I automatically assumed it was because of something I had done wrong. Even if it was something completely outside of my control.
This habit of taking on other people’s emotions started to drain me of my own happiness. I felt guilty for things I didn’t even cause, and I was constantly putting the needs of others ahead of my own.
That’s when I realized—it wasn’t my job to take responsibility for other people’s emotions. It wasn’t my responsibility to fix everything… or to make everyone happy… Everyone is responsible for their own happiness.. including me!!
And so, I started taking steps to prioritize my own wellbeing:
First, I recognized what triggered this pattern in me. Was it a certain type of person or situation? Was it a specific behavior or action? Identifying these triggers was the first step towards changing the pattern.
Next, I started practicing self-care. I made sure to take time for myself every day, to engage in activities that brought me joy, and to practice mindfulness and other relaxation techniques.
I also set boundaries. I learned to communicate my needs and limits clearly and firmly. I started saying no when I needed to, and I stopped feeling guilty for putting my own needs first.
But perhaps most importantly, I learned to be kind to myself—to let go of the guilt and to stop blaming myself for everything around me. I started practicing empathy, trying to understand why others might be feeling the way they did without taking on their emotions as my own.
It was a process, but eventually, I broke the pattern of taking responsibility for other people’s emotions. I started living a happier, healthier life, where my needs are just as important as anyone else’s.
For far too long, I clamped down on my thoughts and desires, hiding them away from the world. Fearful of being judged or rejected, I kept my true self locked up tight. But over time, that spark of desire burned brighter and stronger within me. And so, I began to let it out bit by bit, revealing more and more of myself to the world.
And let me tell you, it was the most freeing experience of my life. To finally share my deepest thoughts and desires, to express what it truly means to be me – it was like a weight had been lifted off my chest. And best of all, it allowed me to connect with others who felt the same way. I met people who understood me and accepted me for who I was, faults and all.
So today, I am urging you to take that first step towards total expression. Don’t lock yourself away any longer. Allow yourself to let go, to be vulnerable, to truly share what it means to be you. Start small if you need to, but keep at it until you’re able to express all that you are to the world.
Imagine a world where everyone is free to express themselves fully. A world where we not only accept each other’s differences but celebrate them. That is the kind of world I want to help build, and I believe you can help me make it happen.
So take that leap, friends. Follow that spark of desire in your heart and start expressing yourself today. I can’t wait to see all that you have to offer.
I hope that in sharing my story and my transformation you will follow the spark of desire in you that wants you to express yourself. To share your thoughts and desires. To express what it’s like to be you. To finally get to meet more of you and eventually all of you...
Let my story be your inspiration,
To set free your creative inclination;
Unleash your soul, let your spark ignite,
And show the world your inner light.
Share your thoughts, your hopes, your dreams,
Express yourself, just as you seem;
For there’s a fire inside you too,
A unique spark that’s waiting to break through.
It’s time to take a leap of faith,
To let your creativity pave the way;
To discover more of who you are,
And unlock the potential that’s been ajar.
– Karpop Riba
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